
Stoicism and visualizing the end of a relationships | Artful Balance
In the face of hardship, stoicism recommends negative visualization as a coping mechanism, the practice of imagining the very worst that...

Balance is not a natural state of being | Artful Balance
I always feel either too full or about to starve. It's a really disruptive way to be because when I feel too full, I'm regretting...

The place of animal rescue in life | Artful Balance
Raising and rescuing animals is not always easy. I don't always know if I can do it. Not each moment is fun with a new pet or rescue...

Perspective is only so negotiable | Artful Balance
A part of being self-aware is realizing that my perspectives are only so negotiable. At a point, I have to accept myself biases, quirks,...

Decadence | Artful Balance
Self-indulgence is an instance of putting comfort above practicality or answering a call to responsibility; it can be saying "yes" to a...

Discipline's Limitations | Artful Balance
Practicing self-discipline does not mean I have forever extinguished my fast-changing moods, anxieties, heartache, or my own vices, like...

Personal Responsibility and Relationships | Artful Balance
If I could go back in time and advise myself one thing when I was going through a nasty, dirty, painful back-and-forth breakup, it would...

The Nature of Production | Artful Balance
Experience trained me to think that if results weren't forthcoming, it was a sign of incompetence. Others did things with such ease and...

"Balanced" Does Not Mean "Perfect" | Artful Balance
Balance regarding productivity is planning my time so that my level of activity, discipline, and production is high enough that when i...

Writing on Writing II | Artful Balance
For me, writing does for my conversations what meditation does for consciousness. Namely, it’s a byway for articulation, poise, and...

Cravings | Artful Balance
Little things I do to undermine my own needs: Attempt to cuddle while falling asleep. I crave touch, but I know it precludes getting in...

Productivity | Artful Balance
When does discipline become nothing more than fidgeting, tweaking? When it lacks productivity. I could spend forever tweaking. It's...

Personal Responsibility and Relationships | Artful Balance
Why should I make concessions for someone I love? Not because I should "grow up" and "deal with it;" not because it's "the adult thing to...

Anxiety | Artful Balance
I used to tell myself: "This is the last time you'll ever have an anxious episode; it must be," because you can do anything if you pump...

Growth | Artful Balance
I was once in a social circumstance in which I had to daily interact with a group of people who I did not wish to be around but who would...

Writing | Artful Balance
Chances are that my ideas, feelings, and insights are not going to download in a logical order and automatically arrange themselves into...

Discipline | Artful Balance
It's amazing how programmable our bodies are. That's why I'm an advocate for discipline. Discipline means sitting upright in a chair at a...

Cravings | Artful Balance
Some days I wake up feeling fanciful. My inner world is bright and sunny and made for frolicking (with complete disregard for my actual...