
What does being an introvert feel like to me | Artful Balance
What is boredom? Boredom is feeling uninterested in, unattached to the situation at hand. I have always felt boredom is unhealthy, a...

Stoicism and visualizing the end of a relationships | Artful Balance
In the face of hardship, stoicism recommends negative visualization as a coping mechanism, the practice of imagining the very worst that...

Giving up goals has taught me this | Artful Balance
When it comes to creativity, productivity, and goals, timing is important, and I need to seize the potential inherent in each day, even...

The straw through the brick wall | Artful Balance
They say that in a tornado, wind speeds are so high that an ordinarily fragile object like straw or eggs can be torpedoed through the...

Feeling Off-Balance | Artful Balance
Feeling off-balance isn't only about feeling subpar. As the word "balance" implies, there are two sides to it, and so feeling...

When indulging cravings is helpful | Artful Balance
If meeting a craving will help me resume my goals, I believe it's helpful. Even if it's a sugar fix in the middle of the day when i'm...

Love and risk | The Road Less Traveled
The attempt to avoid legitimate suffering lies at the root of all emotional illness. The act of love -- extending one's self -- requires...

What if my friend feels depressed? | Artful Balance
Imagine having a friend who, after being severely depressed for years, began to feel better. Now she has a pep in her step, a bright...

Philosophy as a way of life | Academy of Ideas
"There are more things ... likely to frighten us than are to crush us; we suffer more often in imagination than in reality." – attributed...

Anxiety
I begin to feel myself thinking awful thoughts. Blamey thoughts. Critical thoughts. Compulsively, intrusively. That's how I know anxiety...

The mercurial nature of love | Dushka Zapata
Have you ever held mercury in the palm of your hand? (I have, before I knew it was dangerous to do so - so please consider this answer...

Mythical vs. Objective Discipline | Artful Balance
The concept of self-discipline serves a certain role in the minds of people who, like me, worry much about meaning, about purpose, and...

Cravings vs. Self-Indulgence vs. Self-discipline | Artful Balance
Is self-indulgence always bad, and is exercising self-discipline always good? That depends. After indulging this craving, will I be able...

To love we extend ourselves | The Road Less Traveled
Many, many people possessing a feeling of love and even acting in response to that feeling act in all manner of unloving and destructive...

My Personal Commandments | Happy Easter | Artful Balance
1. I cause my own suffering. 2. All the tools I need to alleviate it are within me. 3. They (the tools) are not what most people would...

Balance is not a natural state of being | Artful Balance
I always feel either too full or about to starve. It's a really disruptive way to be because when I feel too full, I'm regretting...

Getting out of my head | Dushka Zapata
Get out of your head and experience new things. That’s my number one tip for becoming happier. Let’s just say for the sake of argument...

The place of animal rescue in life | Artful Balance
Raising and rescuing animals is not always easy. I don't always know if I can do it. Not each moment is fun with a new pet or rescue...

The highest love is neither ownership or guardianship | The Road Less Traveled
Dependent people are interested in their own nourishment, but no more; ... they don't desire to grow, nor are they willing to tolerate...