
The highest love is neither ownership or guardianship | The Road Less Traveled
Dependent people are interested in their own nourishment, but no more; ... they don't desire to grow, nor are they willing to tolerate...

How melancholia can be a catalyst for great creativity | Academy of Ideas
Most of the time, [repressional mechanisms] successfully fulfill their purpose of limiting the content of consciousness. The majority of...

Depression | The Road Less Traveled
The feeling associated with giving up something loved – or at least something that is a part of ourselves and familiar – is depression....

Myths About Love | The Road Less Traveled
The perception that we are loving when we fall in love is a false perception. ... The extension of extending one's limits (which...

Deep Focus and Distractability | What I've Learned
To be truly productive and successful professionally or creatively ... you need to set up long blocks of time where you can work...

Life | Dushka Zapata
Why am I never content about anything? What if I told you that this attribute you are inquiring about is the very best part of you? There...

The Nature of Creativity and the Courage to Create | Academy of Ideas
The creative process begins when an idea of something to create emerges in one's mind. ... One often becomes overwhelmed with a sense of...

Openness to Challenge and Flexibility | The Road Less Traveled
The healing of the spirit has not been completed until openness to challenge becomes a way of life. A life of total honesty [means] a...

Experiences and Experiencing Things | Dushka Zapata
I can tell you two things with certainty. The first is that anything worthwhile will make you suffer. The second is that suffering is...

Love | The Road Less Traveled
I have attempted to transcend the distinction between desire and action. Desire is not necessarily translated into action. ... The...

Reality and Our Worldview | The Road Less Traveled
Distinguishing what we are and what we are not responsible for in this life is one of the greatest problems of human existence. For the...

Ignoring Problems and Confronting Them Before They Confront You | The Road Less Traveled
There is a defect in the approach to problem-solving more primitive and more destructive than impatiently inadequate attempts to find...

The Nature of Travel, Self-Actualization, Existential Therapy, and Humanistic Psychology | A. of I.
"Become who you are." --Pindar, a Greek poet (522 - 440 BC) from Academy of Ideas: Existential Psychotherapy: Death, Freedom, Isolation,...

Undisciplined Parenting, Discipline and Love, and Self-Discipline | The Road Less Traveled
It is not that the comes of unself-disciplined children are lacking in parental discipline of a sort. These children are punished...

Growth, Discipline, and Pain | The Road Less Traveled
I make no distinction between the mind and the spirit, and therefore no distinction between the process of achieving spiritual growth and...

Anxiety, Resilience, and Personal Responsibility | Academy of Ideas
Anxiety and other forms of neurotic suffering can teach us about our way of life. [Anxiety signals to us] that the life path we’re on is...

Pain | Dushka Zapata
I have been hurt so, so bad. Every time I am hurt I learn something new. I learn, for example, that I can get through this. This, as...

Blame and Responsibility | The Miracle Morning
[Personal growth] begins with accepting total responsibility for every aspect of your life and refusing to blame anyone else. While blame...