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Decadence | Artful Balance

Self-indulgence is an instance of putting comfort above practicality or answering a call to responsibility; it can be saying "yes" to a...

Depression | The Road Less Traveled

The feeling associated with giving up something loved – or at least something that is a part of ourselves and familiar – is depression....

Discipline's Limitations | Artful Balance

Practicing self-discipline does not mean I have forever extinguished my fast-changing moods, anxieties, heartache, or my own vices, like...

Myths About Love | The Road Less Traveled

The perception that we are loving when we fall in love is a false perception. ... The extension of extending one's limits (which...

The Nature of Production | Artful Balance

Experience trained me to think that if results weren't forthcoming, it was a sign of incompetence. Others did things with such ease and...

Growth and Anxiety | Artful Balance

I used to get stumped, frozen like a deer in the headlights if I thought I had done something wrong. "Wrong" meant something weird or...

Writing on Writing II | Artful Balance

For me, writing does for my conversations what meditation does for consciousness. Namely, it’s a byway for articulation, poise, and...

Life | Dushka Zapata

Why am I never content about anything? What if I told you that this attribute you are inquiring about is the very best part of you? There...

Writing on Writing | Artful Balance

Writing helps us see the seams between our thoughts. If we let it, that includes the most savage, the most salacious, the most sultry of...

Cravings | Artful Balance

Little things I do to undermine my own needs: Attempt to cuddle while falling asleep. I crave touch, but I know it precludes getting in...

Productivity | Artful Balance

When does discipline become nothing more than fidgeting, tweaking? When it lacks productivity. I could spend forever tweaking. It's...

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