
How melancholia can be a catalyst for great creativity | Academy of Ideas
Most of the time, [repressional mechanisms] successfully fulfill their purpose of limiting the content of consciousness. The majority of...

Decadence | Artful Balance
Self-indulgence is an instance of putting comfort above practicality or answering a call to responsibility; it can be saying "yes" to a...

Depression | The Road Less Traveled
The feeling associated with giving up something loved – or at least something that is a part of ourselves and familiar – is depression....

Discipline's Limitations | Artful Balance
Practicing self-discipline does not mean I have forever extinguished my fast-changing moods, anxieties, heartache, or my own vices, like...

Personal Responsibility and Relationships | Artful Balance
If I could go back in time and advise myself one thing when I was going through a nasty, dirty, painful back-and-forth breakup, it would...

Myths About Love | The Road Less Traveled
The perception that we are loving when we fall in love is a false perception. ... The extension of extending one's limits (which...

The Nature of Production | Artful Balance
Experience trained me to think that if results weren't forthcoming, it was a sign of incompetence. Others did things with such ease and...

Deep Focus and Distractability | What I've Learned
To be truly productive and successful professionally or creatively ... you need to set up long blocks of time where you can work...

"Balanced" Does Not Mean "Perfect" | Artful Balance
Balance regarding productivity is planning my time so that my level of activity, discipline, and production is high enough that when i...

Growth and Anxiety | Artful Balance
I used to get stumped, frozen like a deer in the headlights if I thought I had done something wrong. "Wrong" meant something weird or...

Writing on Writing II | Artful Balance
For me, writing does for my conversations what meditation does for consciousness. Namely, it’s a byway for articulation, poise, and...

Life | Dushka Zapata
Why am I never content about anything? What if I told you that this attribute you are inquiring about is the very best part of you? There...

Writing on Writing | Artful Balance
Writing helps us see the seams between our thoughts. If we let it, that includes the most savage, the most salacious, the most sultry of...

The Nature of Creativity and the Courage to Create | Academy of Ideas
The creative process begins when an idea of something to create emerges in one's mind. ... One often becomes overwhelmed with a sense of...

Cravings | Artful Balance
Little things I do to undermine my own needs: Attempt to cuddle while falling asleep. I crave touch, but I know it precludes getting in...

Openness to Challenge and Flexibility | The Road Less Traveled
The healing of the spirit has not been completed until openness to challenge becomes a way of life. A life of total honesty [means] a...

Productivity | Artful Balance
When does discipline become nothing more than fidgeting, tweaking? When it lacks productivity. I could spend forever tweaking. It's...

Meaning and Answering the Call to Adventure | Academy of Ideas
"He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how." – attributed to Nietzsche in Academy of Ideas: Victor Frankl: Logotherapy and...

Experiences and Experiencing Things | Dushka Zapata
I can tell you two things with certainty. The first is that anything worthwhile will make you suffer. The second is that suffering is...